01/13Things you need to work on in your marriage, based on your zodiac sign
THE COLUMN HAS BEEN WRITTEN BY TAROT AND ORACLE CARD READER RADHA SHARMA THAKUR
“The minute I heard my first love story
I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was.
Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere,
They are in each other all along.”
Jelaluddin Rumi
Once we find our spouse, our lover, our soulmates or you may even call it your twin flame, we have reached a conclusion of one chapter of our lives. We start a new journey with the partner we have chosen. Two people walking the path may sometimes agree with each other and sometimes not. But how can we balance our relationship when it hits a rocky patch? Do we surge on? Do we retreat? Do we compromise? Let’s get these answers and guidance from the ancient cards to nurture your marriage or your love relationship.
02/13Aries
It is time to trust your partner. These are the precious moments. Aries, you are called into a deep connection in your relationship. When you drop your shield, a magical intimacy arises and helps you understand yourself and your relationship better. This is the time to listen and learn by placing your feet in their shoes. When you understand and do this, you shall see everything beautiful in its imperfections.
03/13Taurus
Before you take care of others in a relationship, it is important to first take care of yourself. Check in with yourself- are you experiencing H.A.L.T (hunger, anger, loneliness, tiredness)? It’s time to take a break from your current focus and get busy taking care of yourself. For the present, go with the flow with your relationship. If the old ways in your relationship are not working anymore, let them dissolve and allow fresh energy to shower on your relationship.
04/13Gemini
Now is the time for good old honesty as you take a self-inventory with a neutral state of mind. Have you broken a promise or hurt your spouse unknowingly? When you sincerely admit to it and try to fix it, this act of accountability will help your relationship. It shall open up communication (which is the most important thing in a relationship). It’s time to connect truthfully and you may be surprised that you were taking on a burden that was not even yours to carry. Uncage yourself and feel free to fly.
05/13Cancer
When you include your partner in your dreams and wishes, you should remind yourself that you are not alone; you are a part of a meaningful bond. There are many deep spiritual lessons offered to you in this closeness. Intimate relationships help you ignite the spark in your life and as a result, you flourish in true desire for equality, love, friendship, and laughter. Be true and utterly you. There is much to celebrate when you stand eye to eye and shoulder to shoulder, sharing your heart.
06/13Leo
You love being in your own Leo energy which is all about creativity, living big, and being the protector that you are. When your genius awakens, you realise that you don’t have to do everything by yourself. You have a dedicated, wise partner by your side. You shall recognise that you don’t have to solve every problem that is occurring on your own. Share yourself with your spouse and then only deep satisfaction and success shall result for both of you.
07/13Virgo
It’s time for you to accept the things as they are, dear Virgo. By liberating yourself from the burden of wanting to know how your partner should respond to your need of structure and wants, you shall access what is best for all. The irony is that real changes can happen in your relationship once you surrender to the idea that things are exactly as they are meant to be; observe the circumstances of your relationship and take them at face value.
08/13Libra
Librans, you are in the process of change. You are no longer the person you were. You are in between what was and what is going to be. As you are changing so shall your relationship; this is one reason that you should keep your spouse looped in. So in this transitional phase, your partner is aware of this change that is taking place within you. After explaining it, they shall share your fear of the unknown with emotional fortitude, patience, and trust. When you will look back at this time your love and respect shall mutually grow.
09/13Scorpio
Do you consider things only within the framework of what you already know? If that’s the case, then it’s time to let your guard down and see beyond it. Your partnership with your spouse may not fit in with your imagination and that is what brings in the trap of fearful projection and drama. Others are a reflection of you and when it comes to a partner more so. Where is it that you are scared? There is a vulnerability in strength and there is strength in vulnerability. Time to let your spouse in your weakness.
10/13Sagittarius
Take a deep breath and center the feeling of joy. It’s time to connect with nature. You have come to a part in your relationship which has gone a full cycle. It’s time to enjoy your relationships, curves, and bends. You have come to this position with your partner after lots of ups and downs. It’s time to celebrate your passage. New starts are also coming your way and friendship is one of them.
11/13Capricorn
Your relationship may center on working towards creating beautiful surroundings, entertaining your friends and enjoying peaceful, loving times together. Harmony of body, mind and spirit prevails in this union. You compliment each other very well as both know how to enjoy yourselves. So if your partner is feeling is a little low, it’s time for you to go the whole nine yards.
12/13Aquarius
Offer your attention as the great gift that it is. It’s time to stop multitasking, checking your phone, thinking of what you are going to say next, and doing all the things that keep you from connecting fully. Deep listening is the way in which we immerse ourselves with our person. In this way, we open our minds and our heart to understand more than what is conveyed through words alone. Right now, keep your ears wide open; it shall help you and your relationship.
13/13Pisces
There are situations in your life when you see the value of loss, grief, and a broken heart. Yes, it’s not the pain or loss itself that must be the focus of your attention here. No, not even the story of what happened, the details surrounding what has brought you here are as important as what results from the experience. The gift is in accepting who you’ve become because of this experience. You have become strong and you also have a strong concept of what a partnership should be.
